I'm Falling in Love wth YOu

Mera Khyalo Me Ho Tum Main So Jau To Khuwabon Me Ho Tum Main Jaagu To Mere Khyalo Me Ho Tum Main Nazar Uthau To Meri Ankhon Me Ho Tum Main Chalu To Meri Manzil Ho Tum Main Likhu To Mera Qalam Ho Tum Main Parhu To Meri Ghazal Ho Tum Main Gungunau To Mera Geet Ho Tum Main Sunau To Meri Daastan Ho Tum Main Dhoop Me Hu To Mera Saibaan Ho Tum Main Raat Me Hu To Mera Sahar Ho Tum Main Sochu To Mera Khayal Ho Tum Main Maangu To Meri Duaa Ho Tum. ♥♥♥

Tanhai

 
Ansuo ko bahut samjhaya tanhai me aaya karo,
Mehfil me hamara mazak na udaya karo,
iss par ansu tadap kar bola,
itne logo me aapko tanha pata hun,
is liye chala aata hun…

Develop your compassion.

Compassion is a sympathetic feeling. It involves the willingness to put yourself in someone else’s shoes, to take the focus off yourself and to imagine what it’s like to be in someone else’s predicament, and simultaneously, to feel love for that person.

Compassion is the recognition that other people’s problems, their pain and frustrations, are every bit as real as our own---often far worse. In recognizing this fact and trying to offer some assistance, we open our own hearts and greatly enhance our sense of gratitude.

Compassion is something you can develop with practice. It involves two things: intention and action. Intention simply means you remember to open your heart to others; you expand what and who matters, from yourself to other people. Action is simply the “what you do about it.”

Compassion develops your sense of gratitude by taking your attention off all the little things that most of us have learned to take too seriously.

Bhool jata hun.

Jaruri hai kaam lekin rojaana bhool jata hun,
Mujhe hai tumse mohabbat bataana bhool jata hun,
Teri galiyon me firnaa itna achha lagta hai,
Mai raasta yaad rakhta hun thikaana bhool jata hun,
Bas itni baat par mai logo ko achha nhi lagta,
Mai neki kar deta hun, jataana bhool jata hun,
Sharaarat lekar wo aankho me tera dekhna,
Tauba mai teri najro pe jami najrein jhukaana bhool jata hun,
Mohabbat kab hui kaise hui sab yaad hai mujhko,
Mai kar k mohabbat ko bhulaana bhool jata hun…!!!

Mila de mujhe mere pyar se or sabit kr ki tu hi hai bhagwan!

Mujhse kaha khuda ne mat kar intzar iss janam me uska 

milna 

mushkil h,

maine bhi keh diya lene de maza intzar ka agle janam me to 

mumkin h,

 

usne kaha mat kar itna pyar bahot pachhtaega,

muskura k maine kaha dekhte hain tu kitna meri ruh ko 

tadpayega,

 

fir usne kaha hata use chal tujhe jannat ki hur se milata hu,
 

maine kaha aa niche dekh mere pyar ka muskurata chehra 

tujhe jannat ki hur bhoolata hu,

 

tilmilaakar kaha usne-
 

mt bhool apni aukat tu hai to ek insan.

maine kaha
 

"to mila de mujhe mere pyar se or sabit kr ki tu hi hai 

bhagwan..!!"

Fact versus Opinions

Many times we create confusion when we add our own opinions to facts and come up with wrong conclusions.

For example:

FACT: Two people are whispering when you walk up. 

Suddenly they stop talking.
OPINION: They must be gossiping about me.

FACT: A new lady is appointed in my department.
OPINION: They will ask me to leave!

FACT: He has reported about me to authorities.
OPINION: They will blacklist me. I am now ruined & finished!

Many a times we tend to behave negatively due to our own adverse opinions. We feel people per se are hostile & unfriendly. We become anxious & fearful for no good reason in a situation which is relatively safe.

It is said: “Men are disturbed not by things that happen, but by their opinions of the things that happen.”

Mohabbat

panaho mein jo aaya ho to us par waar kya karna,
jo dil hara hua ho us pe fir adhikar kya karna.
mohabbat ka maza to doobne ki kasmakash mein hain,
jo ho malum gehraiyee to dariya paar kya karna.

Beautiful Love

You are so very beautiful and way too nice
I love you once I love you twice
I’ll scream I love you with my last breath
Even in the after life I’ll love you to death.

Friends..

Friends..... ...
They love you,
but they are not your lover
They care for you,
but they are not from your family
They are ready to share your pain,
but they are not in your blood relation.
They are........FRIENDS! !!!!
True friend...... ..
Scolds like a DAD..
Cares like a MOM..
Teases like a SISTER..
Irritates like a BROTHER..
And finally loves U more than a LOVER.

Be willing to learn

Many of us are reluctant to learn from the people closest to us—our authorities, colleagues, staff and friends. Rather than being open to learning, we close ourselves off out of embarrassment, fear, stubbornness, or pride. It's almost as if we say to ourselves, "I have already learned all that I can [or want to learn] from this person; there is nothing else I can [or need to] learn."

It's sad, because often the people closest to us know us the best. They are sometimes able to see ways in which we are acting in a self-defeating manner and can offer very simple solutions. If we are too proud or stubborn to learn, we lose out on some wonderful, simple ways to improve our lives.

Remain open to the suggestions of your authorities and other devotees. Ask senior devotees and authorities, "What are some of my blind spots?" By this simple process you end up getting some good advice. It's such a simple shortcut for growth, yet almost no one uses it. All it takes is a little courage and humility, and the ability to let go of your ego. This is especially true if you are in the habit of ignoring suggestions, taking them as criticism. 

Pick something that you feel the person whom you are asking is qualified to answer. Sometimes the advice we get usually prevents us from having to learn something the hard way.

ऊँचाई

ऊँचे पहाड़ पर,
पेड़ नहीं लगते,
पौधे नहीं उगते,
न घास ही जमती है।

जमती है सिर्फ बर्फ,

जो, कफ़न की तरह सफ़ेद और,

मौत की तरह ठंडी होती है।

खेलती, खिल-खिलाती नदी,

जिसका रूप धारण कर,

अपने भाग्य पर बूंद-बूंद रोती है।

ऐसी ऊँचाई,
जिसका परस
पानी को पत्थर कर दे,
ऐसी ऊँचाई
जिसका दरस हीन भाव भर दे,
अभिनंदन की अधिकारी है,
आरोहियों के लिये आमंत्रण है,
उस पर झंडे गाड़े जा सकते हैं,

किन्तु कोई गौरैया,

वहाँ नीड़ नहीं बना सकती,

ना कोई थका-मांदा बटोही,

उसकी छाँव में पलभर पलक ही झपका सकता है।

सच्चाई यह है कि
केवल ऊँचाई ही काफ़ी नहीं होती,
सबसे अलग-थलग,
परिवेश से पृथक,
अपनों से कटा-बँटा,
शून्य में अकेला खड़ा होना,
पहाड़ की महानता नहीं,
मजबूरी है।
ऊँचाई और गहराई में
आकाश-पाताल की दूरी है।

जो जितना ऊँचा,

उतना एकाकी होता है,

हर भार को स्वयं ढोता है,

चेहरे पर मुस्कानें चिपका,

मन ही मन रोता है।

ज़रूरी यह है कि
ऊँचाई के साथ विस्तार भी हो,
जिससे मनुष्य,
ठूँठ सा खड़ा न रहे,
औरों से घुले-मिले,
किसी को साथ ले,
किसी के संग चले।

भीड़ में खो जाना,

यादों में डूब जाना,

स्वयं को भूल जाना,

अस्तित्व को अर्थ,

जीवन को सुगंध देता है।

धरती को बौनों की नहीं,
ऊँचे कद के इंसानों की जरूरत है।
इतने ऊँचे कि आसमान छू लें,
नये नक्षत्रों में प्रतिभा की बीज बो लें,

किन्तु इतने ऊँचे भी नहीं,

कि पाँव तले दूब ही न जमे,

कोई काँटा न चुभे,

कोई कली न खिले।

न वसंत हो, न पतझड़,
हो सिर्फ ऊँचाई का अंधड़,
मात्र अकेलेपन का सन्नाटा।

मेरे प्रभु!

मुझे इतनी ऊँचाई कभी मत देना,

ग़ैरों को गले न लगा सकूँ,

इतनी रुखाई कभी मत देना।

अपने ही मन से कुछ बोलें

क्या खोया, क्या पाया जग में
मिलते और बिछुड़ते मग में
मुझे किसी से नहीं शिकायत
यद्यपि छला गया पग-पग में
एक दृष्टि बीती पर डालें, यादों की पोटली टटोलें!

पृथ्वी लाखों वर्ष पुरानी
जीवन एक अनन्त कहानी
पर तन की अपनी सीमाएँ
यद्यपि सौ शरदों की वाणी
इतना काफ़ी है अंतिम दस्तक पर, खुद दरवाज़ा खोलें!

जन्म-मरण अविरत फेरा
जीवन बंजारों का डेरा
आज यहाँ, कल कहाँ कूच है
कौन जानता किधर सवेरा
अंधियारा आकाश असीमित,प्राणों के पंखों को तौलें!
अपने ही मन से कुछ बोलें!

Guidance comes from the Supersoul

God is always within us, and consequently He knows everything about our purposes, and He gives us the opportunity to work as we decide. If we decide to enjoy this material world, God gives us the intelligence to become a very shrewd businessman or a popular politician or a cunning man so that we can earn money and enjoy ourselves. According to the standards of material life, many people are becoming great. They begin as very poor men and soon, by good fortune, become millionaires. We should not think that they are attaining such success by their own puny endeavors. Without intelligence, no one can improve, and that intelligence is given by God. One person can sharply remember past activities by the grace of the Lord while others cannot. One is highly intelligent by the grace of the Lord, and one is a fool by the same control. One cannot do anything unless he is enlightened and empowered by the Lord. In the Bhagavad-gita God states that He is seated in everyone's heart as the Supersoul and that by His will a man can remember or forget. God supplies forgetfulness and remembrance according to the living entity's desire. If we want to forget God and enjoy the material world, He will give us the necessary intelligence so that we can forget Him for good. When one is very serious about getting out of this material entanglement, the Lord, from within, gives him the knowledge that he has to surrender unto Him. He is so kind to His devotees that He gives them instructions by which they may continue to progress. When they receive instructions from the all-perfect, there is no chance of their being misled. Then there is liberation.

Ease off your expectations a little!

Life just isn’t neat and trouble-free. We all have bad days. Sometimes people are rude or insensitive. Phone lines and computers occasionally break down.
   
When I met Ravi, he worked for a software development company. He described it as his first “real job.” He was young and had exceptionally high expectations. The problem was, many of his expectations weren’t being met. He wasn’t being treated with the degree of respect he wanted (or expected), and his ideas weren’t being taken seriously. He felt under-appreciated and taken for granted. He was frustrated and burned-out.

I suggested he lower his expectations and consider thinking of his job in a new way. I asked him to see his job as a stepping stone to bigger and better things later on. He took the suggestion to heart, and his world began to change for the better.

Make room in your heart for bad moods, mistakes, errors, and glitches. Instead of spending so much time being annoyed about the way things unfold, take most of them in stride. This will conserve your energy and, ultimately, make you more productive.
   
No matter how hard you try, life still isn’t always going to go as planned. One of the best ways to deal with this inevitability is to stop expecting it to be otherwise. So ease off your expectations a little. Then you won’t be easily disappointed.

It’s time to change

Grumble, grumble, grumble. Someone who takes himself, others, and everything else very seriously. The primary focus is on problems, always critical, frowning, angry, hurried, frustrated, and stressed. Someone who is waiting for life to get better, for things to be different. Is this you?

You had your chance to experience and explore life and its many facets – the beauty as well as the hassles. But in a way, you took it for granted. You spent your time grumbling, wishing life was different.

We all get too serious at times. Perhaps it’s human nature. Yet there is an enormous difference between someone who gets serious from time to time, and someone else who is constantly in the grumble mode. The good news is, it’s never too late to change. In fact, once you see how ridiculous it is, you can change quickly.

A grumbler will blame life for his sour attitude. He will validate his negativity by pointing to the problems and hassles that he must face. He will justify his position by pointing out the injustices of life and the flaws of others. He hasn’t a clue that his vision of life stems from his own thoughts and beliefs.

The world has become too serious. If you’re part of this sad trend, it’s time to change.

Your sweetest stranger forever.

I know your life can go on without me, that you can be happy without me, that you can survive without me. But even if you turn me away, I will still choose to stay with you and be your sweetest stranger forever.

It's just the way you are

Loving you could take my life.. But when i look into ur eyes, i know u r worth that sacrifice!!!

Love

...Love is in the air?? 
ooooh... 
 
ehm....
 
well.... 
 
in effect....
 

ehm probably... 
 

may be....
 

I'm in love...

 
Think about it every time

 
I think about it
 

Can't stop thinking 'bout it




 

If ever two were one!

If ever two were one, then surely we.
If ever man were loved by wife, then thee.
If ever wife was happy in a man;
Compare with me, ye woman, if you can.
I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold,
Or all the riches that the East doth hold.
My love is such that rivers cannot quench,
Nor ought but love from thee, give recompense.
Thy love is such I can no way repay,
the heavens reward thee manifold, I pray.
The while we live, in love let's so persevere,
That when we live no more, we may live ever.
-- Anne Bradstreet

Advise

I

f you were thinking about someone while reading this, you're definitely in Love.

Confusion of the world

Human are made to be loved and Money is made to be used, Confusion of  the world is People are being used and money r being loved This is amazing but True

My Love

I say a little prayer And hope, my dreams will take me there where the skies are blue to see you once again.
My Love